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NewsReport - September 2010

The Kids’ Birthday Party

Allergy Party Talk

Tone is everything in communication. With the host parents, be courteous, thoughtful and respectful of their child’s special occasion. “Can I do this to help?” will win you friends. “You must” sounds demanding, perhaps intimidating and definitely off-putting.

• It’s not a good idea to “wing it” in your pre-party discussions with the hostess. Anaphylaxis is serious and so you want to be organized, clear, succinct and calm. We suggest using this guide to help you during your hostess call and follow-up meeting, adding your own questions to reflect a particular allergy situation.

• Stay focused on the positive, and inspire the hostess to have a similar attitude about your child. Beatrice Povolo speaks of her son’s allergies as important but quite manageable. She avoids presenting her son in a negative light. e.g. “Poor Joey really wants to come, but he has these allergies .…”

• Be an allergy ambassador, says Susan Clemens. “Welcome questions, but don’t preach.” She reminds: “The party is not about your child. Special allowances need to be done smoothly and without fanfare.”

• Say thank you, a lot.

Read all the steps to Birthday Party Bliss in the Fall 2010 issue. Click to order the issue or to subscribe to Allergic Living magazine.

Also in the Fall issue:

-Essential Guide to Teenagers & Parties
-The Adult Birthday Party
-Allergen-free Vanilla Cupcakes from the Divvies Bakery Cookbook.

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