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PostPosted: Sun May 19, 2013 3:23 pm 
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I went to a birthday party today at a good family friends house.This is really the firs non-family party I've been to since diagnosis. I brought my own food to avoid cross contamination. The hostess wasn't at all offended, but other party guests kept giving me looks. Am I in an etiquette wrong here? What do i do?

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PostPosted: Sun May 19, 2013 11:43 pm 
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I always send food with my kids (& usually stay with them), some people are good about it, others give the looks.

Do what feels right to you. I sometimes allow some items from the host (veggie tray, chips, cheese...) but didn't use to.

You're absolutely not in the wrong. People can be so awkward handling allergies. If a diabetic brings a sugar free cake, or a person with celiac brings something gluten free no one cares (ditto a vegetarian bringing their own food to a BBQ), yet allergies tend to get the :roll: I just don't get it. :scratchy

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PostPosted: Mon May 20, 2013 5:06 pm 
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It's rude for people to stare. You did nothing wrong.
If it really bothered you, you could say, "It looks pretty good, eh? I have dietary restrictions. Sorry I didn't bring enough to share but I'm happy to share the recipe."

I always make sure that dd's alternative food is equally enticing or better so that she doesn't feel bad...I never really thought of the other guests.

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PostPosted: Fri May 24, 2013 7:47 am 
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Do whatever makes you safe. It will vary depending on the host.

Maybe the other guests were looking at your plate and wondering where you found something that looked tasty :happydance

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